PREMARITAL COUNSELLING

Are You Getting Married?

A good marriage isn't something you find, it's something you make, and you have to keep on making it." This little piece of advice by Gary Thomas is what every couple needs to hear and work on. It is indeed true that marriage is a new phase in any one's life that brings with it new relationships together with added responsibilities. It is not always necessary that both partners understand each other and accept each others' differences. Such situations in future  may lead to conflicts in married life. It is for this reason that one should opt for premarital counselling to enhance conflict-resolution skills and to improve understanding towards each other.

Benefits of premarital counselling

• Strengthens bond
• Improves communication
• Helps to learn more about each other
• Improves conflict-management skills
• Talk about marital expectations
• Gain financial management skills
• Helps to get better at handling emotions and anger.
• Broadens your idea about family matters and parenting.

How to choose a premarital counsellor?

Marriage itself is a big decision and when you are ready to take a step forward towards it, choosing a premarital counsellor becomes the next important decision for you to take. As far as arranged marriages are concerned, there are two complete strangers planning to come into a relationship to live their future together. Being fully unaware of each other's likes, dislikes, physical and emotional needs one cannot simply think that their married life will be quite successful. Proper understanding and communication is thus needed to eliminate all the potential risks of future conflicts. A professional counselor can be your best option to simplify this task for you. Here are a few factors to check before choosing a premarital counsellor-

• Well trained and experienced counsellor: It is always good to choose someone who is experienced enough to help you navigate through your married life.
• Meet your religious needs:If religion plays a vital role in your relationship, look for someone who could include that in the sessions.
• Comfortable and trustworthy:It is not easy to open up to a stranger about your relationship, especially when it comes to marriage and intimacy. For that you need someone who is easy to approach and trustworthy enough to keep your interactions completely confidential.
• Easy to access: Many a time, the couple's find it difficult to take out time for premarital counselling. If you are engaged and looking for a premarital counselor, look for those who are easily accessible. In case of long distance couples, online premarital counselling sessions are the best option.

All those couples who are about to get hitched want their married life to be healthy, happy and long lasting. If you too are among them, do not hesitate to book your premarital counselling session with Consolace Counselling Services. We are currently offering premarital counselling services to couples from all communities if they are interested. You don't have to give it a miss just because you don't have enough time to attend the sessions in person as you can always avail our online counselling services through whatsapp, skype, zoom and also over telephone. We have a team of both male and female counsellors whom you can choose according to your needs and preference.

Get in touch with our team of expert counsellors who are forever ready to help you with your counselling needs. Remember, you can make use of our online counselling services via whatsapp, skype, zoom etc.  Book your appointments now!